'Don't go, I need you,' Turkey, EU tell each other

France's new consul general to Istanbul, Bertrand Buchwalter, lived twice in Turkey before being appointed to his last post. He came to Ankara to live for the first time as a young boy, only to come back to the city as a young diplomat.

Married to a Turkish wife, Buchwalter speaks fluent Turkish.

Speaking a foreign language is one thing, knowing and enjoying a foreign culture is another. "I like Turkish music," he said during the speech he delivered last week at a reception. And he made reference to one of the songs of Turkey's most famous singer for more than three decades, the late Zeki Müren, calling him a legendary artist. The name of the song is "Don't go, I need you."

"Turks and Europeans, we need to say this to each other: Don't go, I need you," said Buchwalter.

It seems this is exactly what Turks and Europeans have ended up telling each other.

Despite the call of the European Parliament, the 27 foreign ministers of the European Union decided not to halt membership talks, resisting Austria's demand to suspend the talks as a reaction to the Turkish government's anti-democratic practices.

They have done so, despite consistent and persistent verbal attacks by Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan.

He kept giving messages that the EU is not indispensable for Turkey and that the country had other alternatives like the Shanghai Cooperation Organization. Erdoğan even talked about taking the membership issue to a referendum in Turkey. 

What is interesting is that, while President Erdoğan continued his discourse to give the impression to the public that relations with EU are not that critical for Turkey, Turkish diplomats in European capitals were lobbying against a decision to suspend talks. And...